“织女”盼“牛郎”

• 作 者: 李方敏
• 出 处: 心理与健康
• 发表日期: 1994年02期
• 关键词: 心理困扰 心理压力 心理治疗 家庭生活 心理平衡 自我调节 半梦半醒 数日 夜雨 这个世界

近 些年来,被“出国大潮”卷 走的男男女女,可以说是不计其数。其中有不少人飞往异国他乡之后,开始过着天各一方的“牛郎织女”’生活。天长日久,他们便陷入了心理困扰之中。有的人自挑起家庭生活重担,由于难以承受心理压力,整天忧苦、焦虑、烦躁不安,到处求医问病。有的人,不思饮食、抑郁寡欢,最后住进了医院。有的人独守空房,寂寞难耐,外出寻欢作乐,变成了失去理智的浪人……

In recent years, the men and women swept away by the “big wave of going abroad” can be said to be numerous. Many of them flew to exotic countries and began to live the life of each side of the Cowherd and Weaver. Over time, they fall into psychological distress. Some people stir up the burden of family life, as unbearable psychological pressure, all day worrying, anxiety, irritability, medical treatment everywhere. Some people, not eating, depression, finally admitted to the hospital. Some people alone to the vacant loneliness, go out to entertain, into the irrational ronin ... ...