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因为有才，经理人更易赢得异性的好感，又因为有财，经理人更易使“婚外情”添上浪漫色彩，当世风把男欢女爱视为随时可发生的游戏时，经理人的情感故事更难以梳理。２００１年年底由本刊主持专门召开了经理人私人家庭聚会，到会的老板及经理人就大家普遍关心的经理人婚外情话题展开讨论，尤其对婚外情的方方面面各持己见，但都承认了这个问题的客观存在。感情问题非常复杂，古人有所谓“三军可夺帅，匹夫不可夺志”的话，说明情感世界也许是上帝的“禁区”。据不完全统计，４０岁左右的成功人士９０％有婚外情，这个问题既然已经浮出水面，回避显然不是办法，这一次讨论也不可能解决全部问题。但我们还是能透过敞开心扉的讨论，直击灵魂深处，释放精神压力，从容面对人生。时代的转型，商海的沉浮，让我们感受到经理人丰富而复杂的内心世界，保持心灵的自由在这里是最重要的。
Because talented, managers are more likely to win the opposite sex, and because of the wealth, managers are more likely to make “extramarital affair” add romance, when the martyrs love as a game can happen at any time, the manager’s emotional story more Difficult to sort out. At the end of 2001, we organized a special private family gathering of managers in our magazine. The boss and manager of the conference discussed the issue of extramarital affairs of managers who are generally concerned about. In particular, they confessed each aspect of extramarital affairs, but both acknowledged this issue Objective existence. Emotional problems are very complicated. The ancients have the so-called “three armies can win the handsome, one can not win”, indicating that the emotional world may be God’s “restricted area.” According to incomplete statistics, 90% of successful people aged around 40 have extramarital affair. Since this issue has already surfaced and evasion is clearly not a solution, it is impossible for this discussion to solve all the problems. However, we can still open our hearts to the discussion, and watch the depths of the soul, relieving stress and calmly facing life. The transformation of the times, the ups and downs of the sea of commerce, let us feel the manager’s rich and complex inner world, to maintain spiritual freedom is the most important here.