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两岁那年的夏天看着妈妈切西瓜,方一便迷上了那锋锐的西瓜刀,哭着闹着要自己切。我们的观点是,不要因为一些非原则的问题阻止孩子意愿的满足,经常的不能满足会使孩子产生受挫折感,影响他对于社会与人生的看法。所以,妈妈便将西瓜刀交到了方一的手上,同时教他应该如何切。但这对于两岁的孩子确实很难把握,事实上他根本无法稳稳地握住那把刀。看着他挥舞着闪光的刀向西瓜一下下猛砍,我们才真懂了什么叫心提到嗓子眼儿。刀很快成了方一的玩具,他不仅用它切西瓜,而且将一切能够拿到的东西都切上几下。
Two years old that summer watching her mother cut watermelon, the party fell in love with the Feng Shui watermelon knife, crying to cut themselves. Our point is that we should not stop the child’s wish to be satisfied because of some non-principle problems. Frequent unsatisfying will make his child feel frustrated and affect his views on society and life. Therefore, the mother will hand over the watermelon knife Fangyi hand, at the same time teach him how to cut. But this is really hard for a two-year-old to grasp, in fact he simply can not hold the knife firmly. Watching him waving a flash of watermelon knife slash down, we really understand what the heart mentioned his throat. The knife quickly became a party toy, he not only used it to cut watermelons, but also cut everything that he could get.