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1.规划一个生活蓝图你和你的他谈谈有孩子后的生活,当然谈话应该围绕着孩子,例如你们应该准备些什么孩子出生后由谁来带、如何对孩子进行教育等。回忆一下你和他儿时的经历,再看看周围有孩子的父母,对孩子幼年时期将出现的问题做一些估计,并寻找一些双方认可的应对方法。在你们准备为人父母前,和你的他共同谈论有关孩子的种种话题都是很重要的,这不但能使你们以后能从容应对孩子,还会令你们更加珍惜即将逝去的宝贵的二人世界。2.做一次健康检查
1. Planning a blueprint for life You and your talk about the life after having children, of course, talk should focus on children, for example, you should prepare for what kind of child after birth by whom, how to educate their children. Recall your and his childhood experiences, take a look at the parents with children around, and make some estimates of what will happen to your child in the early years and look for some coping strategies that both parties agree. It is important that you talk with your partner about your child’s topics before you prepare for parenthood. This will not only make you feel comfortable with your children in the future, but will also make you cherish the valuable two-person world that is about to pass away. 2 to do a health check