对孩子,你是否有双重标准

• 作 者: 晓静
• 出 处: 家庭教育
• 发表日期: 1995年04期
• 关键词: 双重标准 小红花 走架 行为标准 双吸 王石 道谦 以宽 三重

这样的情况,在你家里是否经常出现?妈妈在指责孩子时,孩子辩驳道:为什么上次我这样做你是同意的,这次却要骂我呢?又或妈妈在称赞孩子乖时,爸爸冷不防走来浇冷水:“有什么好表扬的呢,又没得到小红花“。不知道父母听了孩子的回话和爸爸的冷言冷语有何感想?在教导孩子的时候,父母很容易态度不一致,或各走各的路,甚至朝令夕改,往往让孩子无所适从。我们来看一看以下问题,它可帮助你反省一下自己是不是一个双重标准的父

This situation, often occur in your home? Mom accused children, the children argued: Why did you last time I agree with you, but this time I scolded me? Or when the mother praised the child good, my father Come in cold water poured cold: “What good praise it, they did not get a small red flower.” Do not know the parents heard the child’s reply and my father’s cold words have any feelings? When teaching their children, parents are very easy to inconsistent attitude, or go their own way, and even make changes overnight, often let the children know what to do. Let’s take a look at the following questions, which can help you reflect on whether you are a parent of a double standard