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曾听说过这样一个故事:有两个爱画画的孩子。第一个孩子的妈妈给儿子一叠纸、一捆笔,还有一个纸篓。她告诉他:不好的画扔在这个纸篓里。第二个孩子的妈妈给儿子一叠纸、一捆笔,还有一面墙。她告诉他:你把好的作品都贴在墙上,给所有来我们家的客人看。几年以后,第一个孩子早已停下了画笔,放弃了画画。第二个孩子则举办了个人画展,一墙的画,色彩鲜亮,震惊了画坛。第一位母亲的失败,在于她强调了孩子的失败;第二位母亲的成功,在于她给予孩子的除了纸与笔,还有对孩子的信任与欣赏,所以她的孩子成功了。在生活中,有许多家长犯了与第一位母亲一
Have heard of such a story: There are two children who love painting. The first child’s mother gave her son a stack of paper, a bundle of pens, and a paper basket. She told him: bad paintings thrown in this paper basket. The second child’s mother gave her son a stack of paper, a bundle of pens, and a wall. She told him: You are good works are posted on the wall, to all the guests to our house to see. A few years later, the first child had long stopped his brush and gave up painting. The second child held a personal art exhibition, a wall painting, bright colors, shocked the painting. The failure of the first mother was that she emphasized the child’s failure; the success of the second mother was her children’s success, in addition to the paper and the pen she gave her, and the trust and appreciation of her children. In life, there are many parents who have committed one with the first mother