给孩子顺耳忠言

• 作 者: 卡罗琳·基奇 梁忠慈
• 出 处: 健康大视野
• 发表日期: 1998年01期
• 关键词: 玛丽 利特尔 对我说 萨拉 一封信 戴维斯 托马斯 艾丽斯 塔菲尔 九十年代

玛丽·安和马克·利特尔曾认为与他们的儿子,现年14的安德鲁相处得挺好。但是去年夏天,利特尔夫妇注意他与朋友的交谈比与父母的多了。玛丽·安补充说:“他的房门常关着。” 麦克和玛丽·戴维斯也注意到他们14岁女儿身上发生的相似变化。“她过去常与我一起聊天,”她父亲说:“现在我们开玩笑说,只有她要东西时才找你。有时她想让你把她看作小女孩,有时则要把她看作一位年青女士,问题是,我们常难以觉察其心思。”

Mary Ann and Mark Little, who used to think Andrew was very good with their son, Andrew, now 14. But last summer, Little was aware that he talked more with his friends than his parents. Mary Ann added: “His door is always closed.” Mike and Mary Davis also noticed similar changes in their 14-year-old daughter. “She used to chat with me,” her father said, “Now we jokingly say that she’s looking for you when she wants something, and sometimes she wants you to treat her as a little girl and sometimes as her The problem with young ladies is that we often find it hard to perceive them. ”