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元月26日这天,原海原县税务局局长薛连雄悄悄儿地将女儿出嫁了。老薛家办喜事,一没宴客,二没收礼,这一时引来街头巷尾好一番议论。老薛共有一儿六女,这次出嫁的是小女儿。如今人们办喜事,摆酒设宴,待客收礼,似乎已成“规矩”。小女儿出嫁,这算得是老薛家最后一宗喜事。人们以为,老薛家恐怕要好好操办操办,同事好友也都等着为老薛帮忙出力。可没想到嫁女的前几天,老薛就打出了招呼他家这次办喜事不待客、不收礼。老薛有老薛的想法:以前嫁女儿。娶媳妇,老薛也操办过,他感到,办喜啦大操大办,讲排场,比阔气,请客收礼,既累自家,又累亲戚、朋友和同事,有百害而无一利。这次他决定不操不办,得到老伴和在县医药公司工作的小女儿薛汉玲的一致
On January 26, on the same day, Xue Lian-hsiung, former director of the Tax Bureau of Haiyuan County, quietly married her daughter. Lao Xue happy event, a banquet, two did not confiscate ceremony, this time lead to a good talk about the streets and lanes. A total of one son and six women old Xue, this is a young daughter married. Now people do weddings, set the banquet, hospitality gifts, seems to have become “rules ”. The little daughter married, this is considered the last wedding of old Xue family. People think that the old Xue Jia afraid I have to do a good job handling, colleagues and friends are waiting to help out for the old Xue. A few days ago did not expect to marry a woman, the old Xue played on his home this happy event does not treat, not gifts. Old Xue with the old idea Xue: married daughter before. Married daughter, old Xue also handled, he felt, do more than happy to do big things, talkative, more than lavish, hospitality, both tired from home, tired relatives, friends and colleagues, there is no harm. This time he decided not to go without saying that he and his wife Xuehanling working at the county pharmaceutical company agree