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编辑同志:我的小孩才4岁多,脾气却很大,比如,吃饭时稍不如意,就摔碗筷。为此我骂过她,也打过她,但都不见效。也有人说孩子大一点儿就好了。我很矛盾,请问我该怎么办?李知萌同志:孩子脾气大,摔东西或打人都是情绪控制不好的缘故。人们往往误以为孩子小,耍点儿脾气没关系,大了,懂事了自然就好了,其实不然。孩子情绪控制不好的弱点极有可能被带到成年,并表现在生活的各个方面。笔者曾经接触过一个案例,该少年已16岁,学习成绩极好,也懂得体贴父母,但是,一旦脾气发作,便野兽般嚎叫,砸家具,打父母,致使父母多处骨折。这个例子虽然
Editor’s Comrade: My child was only 4 years old, but her temper was great. For example, when I was a little disappointed, I dropped tableware. For this I scolded her, but also played her, but not effective. Others say that children are better off. I am very contradictory, how can I do? Comrade Li Zhimeng: children temper, throwing things or hit people are bad mood control. People often mistakenly think that children are small, playing temper does not matter, big, sensible nature just fine, it is not. Children with poor emotional control are most likely to be brought to adulthood, and manifested in all aspects of life. I have been exposed to a case, the boy has 16 years old, excellent academic performance, but also know how considerate parents, but once the temper, they beast-like howl, hit furniture, play parents, resulting in multiple fractures of parents. This example though