如何对待竞争中的失败?

• 作 者: 张园
• 出 处: 中国职工教育
• 发表日期: 2014年21期
• 关键词: 心理学家 挫折 竞争过程 概率 情绪压力 使人 人格品质 令人 工作能力 晶质

在竞争中,失败是令人遗憾的。但匿如恶劣的品质可以在成功中暴露一样,最美好的品质也正是在挫折中被显示的。成功与失败的概率是一半对一半,人生谁都祈求避免失败,但是这如同祈求婴儿学步不要跌跤一样荒唐。心理学家一针见血地指出:没有战胜挫折能力的人,就失去了成功的基本心理晶质。因而如何对待竞争过程中的失败,进而使失败真正成为“成功之母”就显得十分重要了。失败带来的心理变化心理学家从众多的实验中发现,失

In the competition, the failure is regrettable. But hiding as poor quality can be exposed as a success, the best quality is exactly what is shown in setbacks. The probability of success and failure is half to half, everyone prayed to avoid failure in life, but this is as absurd as praying for baby’s toddler not to fall. Psychologists pointed out sharply: Without the ability to overcome setbacks, they lost the basic psychological success of the crystal. Therefore, it is very important to treat the failure in the process of competition so as to make failure the real mother of success. Psychological changes caused by the failure of psychologists found from numerous experiments, loss