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编辑同志:我的孩子常常惹我生气,每当遇到这种情况,我总是大发雷霆,把孩子教训一顿。遗憾的是,我这样做不但没有起到教育效果,反而增加了孩子的抵触情绪。请问这是为什么?我该怎么办?广州罗大卫罗大卫同志:这里有几种方法可帮助你既能发泄出自己的怒气,又不伤害孩子的自尊心,还能够解决问愿。1.避免用批评的语言。当孩子惹你生气时,你要避免用“你”字开头说话,而要用“我”字开头.如不要说“你真讨厌”之类的话,而要说“我生气了”之类的话.关
Editor’s Comrade: My children often make me angry, whenever I encounter this situation, I am always furious to teach the children a meal. Regrettably, not only did I fail to achieve the educational effect but instead increased the child’s resistance. What do I do? What should I do? Guangzhou Luo David Lo David comrades: There are several ways to help you both vent their anger, without hurting the child’s self-esteem, but also to solve the asylum. 1. Avoid using the language of criticism. When the child makes you angry, you should avoid saying “” with the word “you”, but with the word “”, such as not to say “you really hate”, but to say “ I am angry, ”and the like