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我的孙女今年16岁了。在她2岁到6岁这一段时间里,由于她妈妈被选派去高校学习,于是,匆匆忙忙把5口人的“两个家”合并为“一个家”。我这个奶奶就成了这个大家庭中的一员。在此期间,我既得到了和孙女朝夕相处的欢乐,积累了一些“隔代教育”的经验,也遇到了不少祖辈家长都遇到过的问题,有困惑、有挫折、有体验,也有收获。在此,我谈几点主要的体会。一、必须建立融洽的三代人关系。大家庭中最大的烦恼是如何化解小矛盾、小冲突,融洽三代人的关系。孙女知道爷
My granddaughter is 16 years old this year. During her age of 2 to 6 years old, her mother was hired to go to college for study, and was hurriedly merging the “two houses” of five people into “one home.” My grandmother has become a member of this family. During this period, I not only enjoyed the joy of getting along with my granddaughter from day to night, but also accumulated some experiences of “education from generation to generation.” I also encountered problems encountered by many grandparents. I was confused, frustrated, experienced and rewarded. Here, I talk about some of the main experience. First, we must establish a harmonious relationship between the three generations. The biggest worry in the extended family is how to resolve small conflicts, small conflicts and harmonious relations between the three generations. Granddaughter knows God