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gdsy@sina.com 成信容: 我觉得你和室友的不快均来源于一些琐事,有了问题就沟通解决,懂得妥协、退让,多一些宽容和理解,心情就舒畅一些。但你总是将琐事联想很多,从消极的角度看问题,所以烦恼就增多了。其实在生活中,因为利益,随时都会和人发生心理对抗。我们对此应该有一种积极性和灵活性。即积极面对,灵活解决。这样才能有利于我们的心理健康和不断提高解决问题的技巧。
gdsy@sina.com Into the letter capacity: I think you and your roommate are unpleasant are derived from a number of chores, there is a problem to communicate, know how to compromise, concession, more tolerance and understanding, the mood is comfortable. But you always associate the trifles with problems and look at the problems from a negative perspective, so your worries increase. In fact, in life, because of interest, psychological confrontation occurs at any time. We should have a lot of enthusiasm and flexibility in this regard. That is, actively face, flexible solution. Only in this way can we benefit our mental health and constantly improve our problem-solving skills.