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当你第一次踏进一个房间、一间办公室,一辆公交车, 你会拥有一个极短的“自由瞬间”。此时此刻,周围的每个人的注意力都集中在你身上,对于他们,你是吸引人还是令人厌恶,是有趣还是枯燥,就取决于这决定性的一瞬间。这一瞬间相当于一千句语言,或者说等于一千种机会,因为“自由瞬间”对彼此未来的发展影响很大。假如你问别人对你的看法,他们往往会这样开头:
When you first step into a room, an office, a bus, you have a very short “free momentary” moment. Right now, everyone around you is focused on you, and for them, whether you are attractive or disgusting, whether it’s fun or boring, depends on this decisive moment. This moment is equivalent to a thousand words, or equal to a thousand opportunities, because “free momentary” has a great influence on the future development of each other. If you ask others for your opinion, they tend to start like this: