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孩子要入托了。这是自孩子出生以来跨出家庭的第一步。过去,我们总爱说,这是孩子和家长之间身心的分离:我们总是在想该如何帮助孩子度过这一分离。其实,这也是家长和孩子的分离,这个分离对家长来说同样难过。凡有过送孩子经历的家长都有过那种“牵肠挂肚”的感受,都没少在幼儿园的大门外头掉眼泪。用一句妈妈相互解嘲的话来说:要是不掉眼泪,那还是妈妈吗? 其实,绝大多数孩子都成功度过了这次分离,继续健康地成长起来。这里,我们只是想告诉正在或即将入园的孩子和家长,你们将面临什么样的场景,别人是如何处理的,又是怎样度过的……万事开头难,送孩子上幼儿园的开头尤其难。让我们来看看这两位家长是怎样度过的
Children have to care. This is the first step in getting out of your family since your child was born. In the past, we always loved to say that this is the physical and mental separation between children and parents: we are always thinking about how to help our children through this separation. In fact, this is also the separation of parents and children, the separation is equally sad for parents. Anyone who has had experience with children has had the feeling of “worrying,” and seldom shed tears outside the gates of kindergartens. In the words of a mother mocking each other: If you can not shed tears, is it still a mom? Actually, the vast majority of children have successfully spent the separation and have continued to grow healthily. Here, we just want to tell the children and parents who are going or about to enter the park, what kind of scenes you will face, how others handle it, and how they spend it ... Everything is hard at the beginning, and it is especially difficult to send children to kindergarten . Let us see how the two parents spent