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常常有朋友问我,“幸福是什么?”也许人们往往忽略了这个问题,可是在生活中,人人都在渴望幸福,人人都在感受幸福。幸福有时很抽象,有时又很具体;幸福有时很遥远,有时又近在咫尺。只不过在于你会不会享受现在所拥有的幸福。幸福的时候,我们常常感受不到,不懂得怎样去享受。而在痛苦之时,才感受到享受幸福是件多美好的事情。正如钱钟书所说:“人生的刺,就在这里,留恋着不肯快走的,偏是你所不留恋的东西。短瞬的生命的光泽,极易就这样被黯淡着,好像每个人都有了千疮百孔的忧伤。”其实,幸福是一种美妙的感受,需要静静
Friends often ask me, “what is happiness?” Perhaps people tend to ignore this problem, but in life, everyone is eager for happiness. Everyone is feeling happy. Happiness is sometimes abstract and sometimes very specific; happiness is sometimes remote, and sometimes it is close at hand. It’s just that you will not enjoy the happiness you have now. When we are happy, we often do not feel it. We do not know how to enjoy it. In times of pain, it is a good thing to feel happy. As Qian Zhongshu puts it: “The thorns of life are here, and those who are reluctant to go brisk are partial things that you don’t care about. The luster of a short-lived life can easily be dimmed as if Everyone has a lot of sadness."In fact, happiness is a wonderful feeling, need to be quiet