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自立是个体生存发展不可缺少的重要品质和能力。而我们常听一些父母抱怨如今的孩子依赖性太强;媒体上也曾出现“中学生不会剥鸡蛋皮”、“大学生父母陪读”的惊人消息。养子不教,谁之过?孩子小的时候,父母不忍心或怕麻烦不愿让他们独立做事。孩子大了,父母想让他们自立的时候,才发现他们缺乏自立的能力。
Independence is an important quality and ability indispensable to the survival and development of an individual. We often listen to some parents who complain about the dependency on children today is too strong. In the media, there are also surprising news that “middle school students can not peel their eggs,” and “college students and their parents read books”. Foster children do not teach, who passed? When children are young, parents do not have the heart or trouble do not want to let them work independently. When children are older and parents want them to be self-reliant, do they find that they lack the ability to establish themselves.