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孩子的某一行为习惯是好是坏,诸如入睡是否要大人陪着,饭前便后及外出归来是否洗手,玩具玩好后是否自己整理放回原处,某些需求、欲望得不到满足时,是易被说服还是纠缠不休,等等,与这一行为最初出现时大人对其要求如何有密切关系。我儿子在五六个月时,形成了躺着吃奶糕的习惯,边吃边踢着两条腿很是高兴。但一抱起来坐着吃,就低着小脑袋,闭紧小嘴。有趣的是喂他吃牛奶却爱坐着吮,躺着反而别扭。究其原因,是因为我最初喂他吃奶糕那时,贪图方便,让他躺着吃,而喂牛奶从一开始就是坐着喂的缘故。这一教训使我认识到,好习惯要从小培养,一旦形成了坏习惯,则要先克服坏习惯,才能建立新的好习惯。所以,我后来十分注意孩子随着
Children’s behavior is good or bad, such as falling asleep to adults, before and after meals and whether to wash their hands after returning to their original place after playing with toys, some of the needs, desires can not be met Is persuasive or entangled, and so on, and is closely related to how adults demand it when the act first appeared. When my son was in his fifties and six months, he had the habit of lying down while eating a cake and was very happy to eat both legs. But holding up and eating, it is low with little head, tight mouth. It is interesting to feed him to eat milk but love to sit sucking, lying awkward. The reason is because when I first fed him to eat the cake, for the sake of convenience, let him lie down to eat, and feed the milk from the beginning is to feed the sake of. This lesson led me to realize that good habits need to be nurtured at an early age. Once a bad habit has been formed, we must first overcome bad habits and establish new good habits. So, I later paid great attention to children