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在孩子面前“小心说话”很多人以为小孩子什么也不懂,因此在孩子面前讲话时非常不注意,就好像他根本不存在似的,但事实却并非如此。孩子在出生一年内就能够体会和理解情感上的概念,在通常情况下,要比我们认为的时间要早得多,理解得也多得多。你要充分利用和孩子进行交流的机会。不要等到你认为孩子能理解和接受时才对他表达你的情感。从孩子生出来的第一天起,你就要让他通过你对他说的话来了解这样的事实:他对爸爸妈妈来说是唯一
In front of children, “be careful.” Many people think that children do not understand anything, so they pay no attention to what they say in front of their children, as if they did not exist at all, but this is not the case. A child’s ability to understand and comprehend emotional concepts within a year of birth is usually much earlier than we think and much better understood. You have to take full advantage of opportunities to communicate with your children. Do not wait until you think the child can understand and accept him to express his feelings. From the first day of your child’s life, you have to let him understand what you say to him about the fact that he is unique to Mom and Dad