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我是一个小女人,我常常会很“无耻”地问自己所爱的人:“你会不会变心?”和所有热恋中的女人一样,我害怕爱情变老,对方会变心。 一日,遇见一位老师,他说:“其实每一段分手的爱情,首先改变的往往不是一个人的心,而是他对事情的看法。” “是这样吗?” “难道不是吗?”老师一脸肃然,“两个人相爱的时候,大家对事情的看法几乎一致,因为一致,所以大家都觉得这段爱情不可多得,更加珍惜对方。然而当两人中一个人比另外一个成长得快,差距就出来了,尤其在对待一些事物的看法上。
I am a young woman, and I often ask my beloved “shamelessly”: “Will you change my heart?” Like all women in love, I am afraid that love will grow old and my partner will change my mind. One day, he met a teacher and said: “In fact, the breakup of love in each segment is not always the first one to change, but the way he thinks about things.” “Is that so?” “Is not it?” When the two people fall in love, they all agree on things because they are consistent, so everyone feels that this love is rare and cherishes each other, but when one of the two grows more than the other, Quick, the gap is coming out, especially in the treatment of something.