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与孩子交谈是人生的一大乐趣。加州大学哲学博士、心理学教授夏斐德认为:“如果你能敏锐地察觉到孩子的感受,并满足他们的合理要求,他们会永远愿意同你说话。”我认为,要让孩子愿意与您交谈,必须做到以下几个方面。 1.多施爱护并面带笑容。在交谈中,不时摸摸孩子的头,对孩子的话鼓鼓掌等,孩子会感到很亲切。这样能缩短彼此之间的距离,缓和彼此之间的紧张关系。同时,笑的魅力是无穷的,微笑会让孩子对您产生信任感,彼此间的交谈会顺畅得多。 2.千万别用生硬教训的言语。许多父母常对孩子的提问,尤其是“刨根问
Talking with children is a great pleasure in life. Harfield, a PhD professor of psychology at the University of California, said: “If you are acutely aware of your child’s feelings and meet their reasonable expectations, they will always be willing to speak with you.” I think that, let the child be willing to work with you Conversation, you must do the following aspects. 1. More care and smile. In conversations, touching the child’s head from time to time, applauding the child’s words, children will feel very friendly. This will shorten the distance between each other and ease the tensions between each other. At the same time, the charm of laughter is endless, smiling will make your children have a trust in you, talk to each other will be much smoother. Do not use hard words. Many parents often ask their children questions, especially “asking questions.”