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与孩子之间的有效沟通的确是一门艺术,家长必须用心才能做好。中国教育研究所心理学教育专家徐岫茹给广大家长的建议是:“顺其所思,欲其所需,同其所感,引其所同,投其所好,扬其所长,促其所成。”许多家长在同我的交流中都提到,原则是好学好懂也是很好掌握的,不过一到具体的沟通问题上就给卡住了。不管是避一避,绕一绕,冷一冷,还是笑一笑,孩子只要一听到我们说话就烦了,往往是“别说了,别说了,又在给我上课呀。
Effective communication with children is indeed an art, parents must be careful to do a good job. Xu Xiuru, an expert on psychology education at the China Institute of Education, advises the parents: ”Let it be, let it be what it wants, Many parents mentioned in my communication that the principle is to learn and understand is also very good grasp, but as soon as the issue of specific communication to get stuck. Whether it is to avoid, around a winding, cold and cold, or a smile, as long as the children hear us to speak to the annoying, often "do not say, do not say, and give me the class ah.