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在家庭关系中,婆媳不和历来是一个老大难问题。那么,造成婆媳不和的原因是什么呢? 社会历史的原因不谈,就其社会心理方面的原因来说,主要有以下几个方面: 首先,从婆婆这方面讲,往往有一种“拒变的心理”。儿子没结婚的时候,做母亲的出于对儿子生活的关心,盼望儿子早结良缘。儿子真的结了婚,做母亲的又怕自己与儿子的关系变化,怕自己在整个家庭中的地位发生变化。然而,随着媳妇的出现,这些变化往往又是难以避免的。
In the family relations, the dishonesty of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a chronic problem. So what is the reason for the disharmony between mother-in-law and mother-in-law? The reasons for social history aside, there are mainly the following aspects in terms of their social and psychological reasons: First, from the perspective of her mother-in-law, there is often a “ Changeable psychology. ” The son did not get married, the mother out of concern for his son’s life, looking forward to his son early knot. His son is really married, his mother afraid of their own relationship with their son, afraid of their position in the entire family changes. However, with the advent of the wife, these changes are often unavoidable.