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就像成年人都有自己的底线,孩子也有自己的底线。如果父母挑战了他们的底线,就会让他们产生逆反心理,从而故意和大人对着干。那么,孩子们都有哪些“事”是家长不能触及的底线?底线1隐私的“事”家长不要公开暴露孩子的隐私,不能当众说宝宝尿床,也不能把宝宝和你说的私密话抖出去,孩子可能说不喜欢某个人,也可能说长大后与某某结婚等。家长不要以为孩子小,说给别人听也无妨。当众暴露孩子的隐私,既伤了其自尊,又会让他缺乏安全感,也不再信任你,融洽的亲子关系被扭曲,不利于以后的家教。底线2被愚弄的“事”
Like adults have their own bottom line, children have their own bottom line. If parents challenge their bottom line, it will make them produce rebellious, and deliberately and adults against. So, what are the children? “Things ” is the bottom line parents can not touch? Bottom line 1 privacy “things ” Parents do not openly expose the child’s privacy, can not be said baby to bed wet, nor the baby and you said Shame out of private words, the child may say that does not like a person, may also say that after growing up and so and so married. Parents do not think that children are small, say it to others anyway. Public exposure of children’s privacy not only hurt their self-esteem, but also make him feel insecure and will no longer trust you. Harmonious parent-child relationships are distorted and not conducive to future tutoring. The bottom line 2 is fooled “thing ”