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我有一个女儿,一个调皮而又可爱的女孩子。记忆中的女儿似乎永远也不会长大,只是带给我的感觉是日渐的新奇和成熟,使人深感惊讶,看到女儿长大,我不但没有为自己的日渐衰老而悲哀,反而看到女儿日渐的鲜活而充满兴奋和快乐。有一天,女儿对我说:“妈妈,你可以陪我看会儿电视吗?”语气中充满渴望,女儿从来不对我提要求,即使有什么想法也都是找她爸爸讲,而她的父亲似乎也从来没有对女儿说“不”的习惯。可是女儿突然对我说出这个企求,使我颇有受宠若惊的感觉。电视里播送的正巧是一部关于小孩子学习的故事,屏幕上的母亲正在对孩子说:“你要好好学习,否则就不可想象后果。”没想到,女儿突然说:“妈妈,这个人很像你嘞!”我此时方明白女儿为何要我陪她看电视,因为她想借电视中孩子的口说出她心里的想法,她嫌我啰嗦,又不敢直接说出来。女儿长大了,她竟然懂得说话婉转,我心里没有一点对女儿的懊恼,反而为女儿的长大而暗暗高兴,因为在这个社会里不学会说话艺术,吃亏的情况往往在不经意间就出现了,而且其后果是防不胜防,即使到后来赶紧补救都来不及了。
I have a daughter, a naughty and cute girl. The memory of the daughter seems never to grow up, but bring me the feeling is increasingly novel and mature, people were surprised to see her daughter grow up, I not only did not for their own aging and sad, but to see To the daughter of fresh and lively and full of excitement and happiness. One day my daughter said to me: “Mum, can you watch TV with me for a while?” The tone was full of desire. The daughter never asked me anything. Even her thoughts were addressed to her father, It seems that there has never been a habit of saying “no” to her daughter. But my daughter suddenly told me this request, so I am quite flattered feeling. The television broadcast was coincidentally a story about children’s learning. The mother on the screen is saying to her child: “You have to study hard, otherwise you can not imagine the consequences.” Suddenly her daughter said: “Mom, this person is very Like you 嘞! ”I now understand why my daughter wants me to watch TV with her, because she wanted to say her heart by the child’s mouth on television, she was too long-winded, but I dare not say it directly. She grew up, she actually know how to talk mildly, my heart did not a little annoyed daughter, but grew up and secretly happy daughter, because in this society do not learn to speak art, loss often occurs inadvertently appeared , And its consequences are hard to detect, even if it is too late to remedy later.