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策划人小语很多读者向小婚家表达过这样的困惑:伴侣总是逃避和自己交心,无论付出多少,都得不到伴侣热情的回应;两人一有矛盾,他就立刻封闭自己,甚至说一些特别伤感情的话把伴侣往外推;摸不透也搞不清伴侣的真实想法,感觉伴侣的心是冷漠的、被动的、死气沉沉的,慢慢地,自己的心也凉了下来……总之,他们难以接受爱。他们的心就像一个黑洞,你付出多少爱,他们都看不见,不领情。本期策划,我们和心理专家一起,了解那些难以接受爱的人有哪些表现,为什么会有这样的表现,以及我们又该如何帮助他们学会接受伴侣的爱。
Small planners many readers to the small wives have expressed such confusion: the couple always evade and their own heart, no matter how much they are not enthusiastic response to partners; once the two contradictions, he immediately closed himself, or even Say some special hurt words to push partners; extravagant touch also confused real thoughts, feeling the partner’s heart is indifferent, passive, lifeless, slowly, his heart is also cool ... ... In short, they can hardly accept love. Their heart is like a black hole, how much love you give, they can not see, do not appreciate. In this issue, we work with psychologists to understand what those hard-of-lovers have, why they have such a performance, and how we can help them learn to love their partner.