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你必须学会坦诚待人:坦诚乃诚实与勇气之子。无论在何种场合,都应道出自己的真实想法。如果朋友对你有所求,对于合情合理之请,应欣然同意;否则,应明明白白地告知拒绝的理由。任何模棱两可的话语都会让他人误解,也会使自己蒙受冤屈。切莫为交友或维系友情而做错事。否则,如此朋友将使你付出沉重代价。善待同窗,不曲意结交。你会发现这是最长效的准则。总之,要以真实面目示人。如发现某人有缺点,直接告诉他,而不是其他人。人前一套,背后一套,没什么比这种做法更危险。任何有损
You have to learn to treat people honestly: being honest is the son of honesty and courage. No matter what the occasion, should tell their true thoughts. If a friend has asked for something about you, he or she should gladly agree with a plausible proposal; otherwise, the reason for the refusal should be plainly stated. Any ambiguous words will make others misunderstand, will also make their own suffer injustice. Do not make mistakes for making friends or for keeping friendships. Otherwise, such a friend will make you pay a heavy price. Treat students, do not make ends meet. You will find this the most effective rule. In short, to show people the true face. If someone finds a weakness, tell him directly, not someone else. No one is more dangerous than this one. Any damage