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人生的快乐源自不断接受挑战和解决问题,来自肯承担痛苦有的人无论在什么单位工作,只要遇到不顺心的事情,就习惯性地向别人倒苦水,总是希望别人能帮忙,替他化解困难。结果可想而知,同事们只会疏远他。职场中有另一类人,他们独立自强,再大的困堆也不会想到逃避,而是琢磨着怎样解决,这样的人,即使他不向人求助,却总能得到周围人的援手。这并不难理解。前者心存“受害者意识”,希望得到别人的同情,这反而引起了他人的反感,而后者则持有
The joy of life comes from constantly accepting challenges and solving problems. From those who are willing to bear the pain, no matter what units they work on, whenever they encounter something that does not go their way, they happily abuse others and always want others to help them. He solved the problem. The results can be imagined, colleagues will only alienate him. There is another type of people in the workplace who are independent and self-reliant and will not think of evasion any longer. Instead, they try to figure out how to deal with such a situation. Even if he does not ask for assistance, he or she will always be assisted by the people around him. This is not hard to understand. The former heart “victim awareness”, hoping to get the sympathy of others, which has aroused the objection of others, while the latter holds