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作为家长,我们经常会觉得自己的孩子有各种各样的问题,进而会想办法进行纠正。从心理学的角度来讲,孩子可能并不一定是父母们认为的那样真的有问题。那么,对孩子的“问题”该如何处理呢?这就需要家长能够认真地倾听孩子的心声,解读孩子“问题”背后真正的心理需求。下面是现实生活中存在的孩子与家长之间出现问题的一些常见现象,通过分析这些问题,我们可以看到孩子的真正心理,听到他们的真实心声。
As parents, we often feel their children have a variety of problems, and then find ways to correct it. From a psychological point of view, children may not necessarily have problems as parents think. So what should we do about the child’s “problem”? This requires that parents should listen carefully to their children and interpret their true psychological needs behind the “problem” of their children. Here are some common phenomena that occur between children and their parents in real life. By analyzing these problems, we can see the true psychology of children and hear their true feelings.