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无论是失恋者或是离异者都有一个“感情脆弱期”,这一时期依个人的性格、经历、素质等的不同或长或短,它的出现往往是因恋爱或婚姻中情感裂变造成的。“感情脆弱期”的特征表现为:失魂落魄、渴求别人的关怀和同情、容易受外界的影响和诱惑。 从某种角度看,“感情脆弱期”也是感情危险期的孪生兄弟,失恋者或离异者在这一时期如果自控能力和防御能力薄弱的话,便很容易滑入新的感情危险境地。在生活中,我们常常耳闻一些失恋或离异的女子“才出虎口又入狼窝”的悲剧故事。笔者在广东打工时就碰到过一位境遇凄惨的女士,三年前
Either lovers or divorcees have a “vulnerable period of feeling”, which is caused by the difference or dissatisfaction of individual’s personality, experience, quality, etc. during this period due to the emotional fission in love or marriage . The characteristics of “vulnerable sentiment” are as follows: distraught, desperate for the care and sympathy of others, and easily influenced and tempted by the outside world. In some ways, Sentimental Vulnerability is also a twin brother, lover or divorcee of a dangerous period of feeling. During this period, if the self-control and defensive capabilities are weak, they can easily slip into new emotional dangers. In our lives, we often hear some tragic stories about a woman who has lost love or divorced her. When I was working in Guangdong, I met a miserable lady, three years ago