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据说,幸福的夫妻都有隐私。不知道可不可以由此推论:无隐私的夫妻都不幸福。更不知道赞同此道的男女比例是否伯仲。也许,夫妻之间坦诚相见已经是上世纪的老土,彼此心照不宣,绝不捅破“窗户纸”(即使是不忠的“窗户纸”)才更能获得永久的幸福。不过,隐秘与坦白、欺骗与忠诚、保持自我与尊重对方之间,安全的“剂量”究竟在哪里? 看得更多的是摸着石头掉进河里,因为——是悲剧才有美感
It is said that happy couples have privacy. Do not know whether it can be inferred: no privacy of the couple are not happy. I do not even know whether the proportion of men and women who agree with this line is equally high. Perhaps the honest acquaintance between husband and wife is already the old world of the last century, and each other tacitly approached each other, never piercing the “window paper” (even the infidelity of the “window paper”) will be more permanent happiness. However, where is the “dose” of secrecy and confession, deception and loyalty, self-esteem and respect for each other, and safety? Seeing more is the feeling of stone falling into the river because - there is beauty in the tragedy