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2006年的最后一天,北京下起了大雪,那也是我第一次做心理咨询的日子。事前,像准备教案一样,我心里想好了要对来访者说的话,然后踌躇满志的我准时来到了咨询室。可是,整个咨询过程完全出乎我的意料,来访者根本不按“常理”出牌,我被问得无地自容,内心充满了焦虑与愤怒,我好像根本不能“对付”来访者。随后的好长一段时间我都不敢接咨询,我意识到问题的严重性,于是求助于我的督导老师。督导老师巧妙地引导我自己思考和回答了来访者“拷问”我的那几个问题,成长中的我愿意和大家一起分享我的经历。
The last day of 2006, Beijing snowstorm, it is the first time I do psychological counseling day. In the past, like preparing a lesson plan, I thought of what I wanted to say to my visitors, and I was very proud to come to the consultation room on time. However, the whole consultation process was completely beyond my expectations. The visitors did not press their cards at all. I was asked for helplessness and my heart filled with anxiety and anger. I did not seem to be able to deal with visitors. After a long period of time I did not dare to take advice, I realized the seriousness of the problem, so turn to my supervisor. The supervisor mentally guided me to think and answer the questions my visitors asked me. “I’m willing to share my experiences with all of you when I grow up.”