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正确认识自我,对孩子的行为有着很重要的调节作用。儿童最初是通过别人,特别是他心目中的权威人物对自己的评价而认识自己的。这时.别人的评价具有很强烈的暗示作用。父母的言行在孩子人生道路上的起点上起着至关重要的启蒙作用。一、学会欣赏自己。自我欣赏是一种充满自信的行为表现。2000年出版的国内第一本少年儿童蓝皮书指出:调查表明,当今的少年儿童对自我的发展和自我的力量有较充分的估计,对自我发展充满信心。如对自己的长相表示满意的占76.8%;对自己的健康状况表示满意的占80.5%;对自己的性格表示满意的占71.3%;对自己的学习状况表示满意的占70.0%;认为"自己在各
Correct understanding of the self, the behavior of children has a very important regulatory role. Children first learned of themselves through the evaluation of others, especially in his heart. At this time, the evaluation of others has a very strong implication. Parents’ words and deeds play a crucial enlightenment role in the beginning of the child’s life. First, learn to appreciate yourself. Self-appreciation is a confident behavior. The first blue book for children and teenagers published in 2000 pointed out: The survey shows that today’s children and children have a more adequate estimate of self-development and self-power and are confident of self-development. Such as 76.8% who are satisfied with their appearance, 80.5% who are satisfied with their health status, 71.3% who are satisfied with their own personality, 70.0% are satisfied with their learning status, Oneself in each