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薇薇:你好,我考虑了很久才决定写这封信给你,因为我的问题让我有点羞于说出口。我和老婆谈了两年恋爱后组建了家庭。现在有个问题非常困扰我,我们的性生活很不和谐,至少让我很不满意。她是一个比较保守的女孩子,性爱的方式非常传统,给我的感觉是她很放不开,每次都是应付我,想要草草了事。久而久之,她就变得让我无法兴奋,所以,我就开始在性爱时把她幻想成我前女友。说实话,我和前女友之间虽然存在很多问题,但我们之间的性生活非常和谐,所以想到她仍能够燃起我的欲望。久而久之这慢慢成为了习惯,我知道这样非常不好,有几次甚至差点叫错了名字,我也很内疚,因为我还是很爱我老婆的。可是如果不把她想成前女友,我几乎无法和她过夫妻生活,我真的不知道该怎么办,往后的日子还有那么长,我实在不想一直这样下去,请你帮帮我,谢谢了!苦恼的小贝
Vicki: Hello, I considered for a long time before deciding to write this letter to you because my question made me feel a bit ashamed to say it. My wife and I talked about love after two years to form a family. Now there is a problem that bothered me very much, our sexual life is very discordant, at least I am not satisfied. She is a more conservative girl, the way of sex is very traditional, the feeling to her is that she can not let go, every time I cope with, want to havetily. Over time, she became so I can not be excited, so I began to fantasize about her as my ex-girlfriend. To be honest, although there are many problems between myself and my ex-girlfriend, the sexual life between us is very harmonious, so I think she still can ignite my desire. As time passes, it slowly becomes a habit, and I know it is so bad that I have almost been wrongly called several times, and I am also guilty because I still love my wife very much. But if I did not think of her as a former girlfriend, I could hardly live a married life with her, and I really did not know what to do. I still do not want to go on like this for a long time. Please help me, Thank you! Worried Beckham