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曾有人问我,你觉得世界上最不幸的是什么?我说,最不幸的,就是你总是认为自己很不幸。这话有点拗口,简单说来,自怜的人是不幸的。因为他们将自己设定成了被害、被动、无能为力的角色,如同在脚下画了个圈,一厢情愿地将命运套进悲哀的剧本。正如那个姐姐对我说的,你总是告诉自己你不行,以后“行”的事情会越来越少。停止糟糕的心理暗示,首先是自己要打起精神。喜欢看日剧韩剧的朋友大概会有这样一个印
Someone once asked me what do you think is the most unfortunate in the world? I said, what is most unfortunate is that you always consider yourself unfortunate. This remark is a little hard to pronounce, in short, self-pity is unfortunate. Because they set themselves up as victimized, passive, powerless characters, as if they had drawn a circle at their feet, wishful thinking to set their fate in a sad script. As the older sister said to me, you always tell yourself that you will not do anything. Stop bad psychological hints, first of all, they want to start their own efforts. Like to see Japanese dramas Korean friends probably have such a seal