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那些“喜新不厌旧”的男人可以很爱自己的妻子,又偷偷与另一个女人发生性关系,然后若无其事地回家。女人则不同,一般不会同一个自己不爱的男人发生性关系,这往往跟男女两性对爱情和性的不同态度有关。男人容易将自己的不忠单单看成性的问题,可以跟爱情无关。而在一个妻子眼里,丈夫的不忠就不仅仅只是性的问题,她会悲观地推测丈夫在感情上背叛了自己。所以,当发生了婚外性的丈夫一边为自己的不轨行为忏悔,一边又为自己没有背叛爱情而辩护时,女人很困惑——这可信吗?
Those who “do not get tired of new things” can love their wives and sneak in with another woman and go home without any hesitation. Women are not the same and generally do not have sex with a man they do not love, which is often related to the different attitudes of men and women about love and sex. It is easy for men to regard their infidelity as merely a matter of sexuality, and it can have nothing to do with love. In the eyes of a wife, her husband’s infidelity is not just a matter of sexuality. She pessimistically speculates that her husband betrayed her emotionally. So, when an extramarital husband repents her misconduct while defended her not betraying her love, the woman is puzzled - is that credible?