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早晨,我常在幼儿园门前协助保健医生做晨间检查,发现家长在送孩子入园时态度各不相同,概括起来大致有这么几种: 恐吓有的家长到了幼儿园门口还不忘恶狠狠地教训孩子:“再听说你上课乱摸东西,回去割你的手指。”“老师提的问题回答不出,中午就不要吃饭。”孩子太调皮了,以至于无心学习,家长是该好好教育,但采用恐吓的手段,其教育效果是不会好的。因为当着那么多孩子的面教训他,会损伤孩子的自尊心,使其在感情上与自己疏远。尤其是,当他真的又做了小动作,又没有答对老师的提问时,父母的“割手指”、
In the morning, I often assist health-care practitioners in morning check-ups in front of kindergartens and find that parents have different attitudes when they send their children to school. In summary, there are several general intimidations: Some intimidating parents did not forget to fiercely teach at the kindergarten door Children: “I heard that you go to school to mess things up and go back and cut your fingers.” “The teacher did not answer the question, do not eat at noon.” Children too naughty, so careless to learn, parents should be good education, However, by using intimidation, its educational effect will not be good. Because teaching him in front of so many children can damage the child’s self-esteem and make him feel emotionally alienated from himself. In particular, when he really did minor tricks and did not answer the teacher’s questions, his parents’ cutting fingers,