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在全国范围内向年轻人提出一个明智而合适的期望标准是非常必要的。以下是一些如何营造出一种比较高的期望氛围——使你的孩子和你自己都获益的一些办法:1．牢记谁做主。标准是由父母、社会和学校制定的。定的目标要清晰,不能含糊;不能发出双重信息,如“我过去学数学也遇到麻烦”等。倾听你孩子的意见,但是让他们明白只有父母才拥有最终的决定权。2．不要让孩子退缩。按照史蒂文森的观点,如果儿童不能在10分钟内解答一个数学问题,他们便会放弃或请别人帮助。经验丰富的教师告诉罗斯蒙德,孩子们在球场上做游戏时也会很快放弃,
It is imperative to present a sensible and appropriate expectation of standards to young people nationwide. Here are some ways to create a high level of expectation - ways to benefit both your child and yourself: 1. Keep in mind who is the master. Standards are set by parents, society and schools. The goal should be clear and not ambiguous; you should not send out double messages, such as “I used to math and have trouble.” Listen to your child’s opinion, but let them know that only parents have the final say. 2. Do not allow your child to shrink. According to Stevenson, children can either give up or ask for help if they can not answer a math question within 10 minutes. Experienced teacher told Rosemond, children will quickly give up when playing games on the court,