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儿子正洗袜子,我站在一边看。他转过头:“妈妈,你去干别的吧。”我有点尴尬:你洗的袜子真干净。妈妈,请注意说话的眼神。我在你后面站了很久,正准备表扬你呢。“妈妈,但是你的眼神是批评指导的眼神。”我转身离开了。仔细想想,孩子说的非常对。我刚才发现孩子洗袜子的几个微细环节都是不正确的,但是,站在他的后面,又不敢妄加评论,只想着如何在赏识教育的基础上,转到批评指导上。可是,孩子却看出来了,是从我的眼神中。孩子从学校回来:“妈妈,英语分数下来了。”多少?“85分。”
Son is washing socks, I stood watching. He turned his head: “” Mom, you go to something else. “” I am a bit awkward: you wash socks clean. Mom, please pay attention to talk. I stood behind you for a long time, is preparing to praise you. “Mom, but your eyes are the guide of criticism. ” I turned and left. Think carefully, the child is very right. I just found out that the slenderness of washing socks is not correct. However, standing behind him did not dare to make any comment on it. Instead, I just thought of how to turn to critical guidance on the basis of appreciation of education. However, children can see it, from my eyes. Children come back from school: “Mom, English scores down.” “How many?” “85 points.” "