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据千龙网对5000名家长的问卷调查得知,25～40岁的女性网友承认在孩子教育上时刻都有压力感和焦虑感的占22.5%;经常有压力,时常向朋友倾诉的占31.4%;有时有压力,可以与伴侣交流释压的占27.6%;男性网友这三项的比例分别为8.4%、12.6%、15.3%。由此可见,父母养育子女的心力成本和财力成本不但大大增加了,而且在孩子成长过程中,常处于超负荷状态。如今,为此患上焦虑症、抑郁症、强迫症的父母屡见不鲜,而母亲承受的心理压力又大大超过父亲。一部分已婚家庭因对子女的教育问题意见不一,而出现了矛盾冲突,成为目前城市中已婚夫妇除“外遇”之外,排名第二的离婚诱因。那么,父母们应如何相互协作,并适时地减压,共同教育好孩子呢?我们先听听几位有见地的父母的建议吧。
According to a survey of 5,000 parents by Qianlong Network, 25- to 40-year-old female netizens admitted that they always have pressure and anxiety on their children’s education, accounting for 22.5% of the total. They often feel stressed and often talk to their friends about 31.4 %; Sometimes there is pressure, 27.6% can communicate with partners to relieve pressure; male netizen ratio of these three were 8.4%, 12.6%, 15.3%. Thus, the parental parental effort and financial cost not only greatly increased, but also in the process of child growth, often in overload. Nowadays, parents suffering from anxiety, depression and obsessive-compulsive disorder are not uncommon for this reason, and their mothers are under psychological stress much more than their fathers. Some married families have different opinions due to their education on children. As a result, conflicts and conflicts have emerged and become the second leading divorce inducement for married couples in cities other than their “affair”. So, how should parents cooperate with each other and reduce pressure in a timely manner to educate their children together? Let us first listen to suggestions from some insightful parents.