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十几年前,我怀揣着2000块钱踏上了去深圳的列车。当时父母并不支持我的决定,临走之前,我对他们撂下了“狠话”:我决心已定,不管未来怎么样,你们都不用到深圳找我,我活要活在深圳,死也要死在深圳。到了深圳之后,为了省钱,我严格规定自己一天只能花一块钱。那时深圳还有卖玉米饼的,一块钱可以买三个,我就天天只吃玉米饼。上下班拿着一个矿泉水瓶子灌满白开水,渴了就喝一口。母亲从小就教育我说,谁有不如自己有,靠山山会倒,靠水水会枯,女孩子必须自爱、自强、自立,才能过上真正有尊严、有安全感和成就感的生活。所以我就从来没想到,要嫁个有钱人,让别人来养我。我一直要求靠自己奋斗去得到想要的东西。
Ten years ago, I set foot on the train to Shenzhen with 2,000 bucks. At that time, my parents did not support my decision. Before I left, I laughed at them. "My heart is determined. No matter what the future, you do not have to go to Shenzhen to find me. I live in Shenzhen. , Death also dying in Shenzhen. After I arrived in Shenzhen, in order to save money, I strictly stipulated that I could only spend one dollar a day. At that time there are selling tacos in Shenzhen, a dollar can buy three, I eat only tacos. To work with a mineral water bottle filled with boiled water, thirsty drink. When I was young, my mother taught me that whoever has oneself is better than oneself, that one can fall by the mountains and rivers, and that girls must become self-reliant, self-reliant and independent in order to live a life full of dignity, sense of security and accomplishment. So I never imagined that we should marry a rich man so that others would support me. I’ve been asking myself to get what I want by myself.