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有句话说得很有道理:“性爱是穷人的晚餐”。我就像一个天天没有吃晚餐的人,饿着去睡觉。性欲像座山压着壮年的我,一年又一年……没有这种体会的人是很难理解我这种感觉的。我认为,只有性才能让婚姻质量提高。对于芸芸众生而言,生活是平凡而琐碎的,一般家庭没有事业上、金钱上的大起大落,所以婚姻质量的变化十有八九取决于性。台湾的一位婚恋专家说,婚姻靠三方面维护:爱情、恩情、相处。婚姻的过来人都知道,没有哪一对夫妻能相处得一点矛盾都没有,没有一个丈夫(或妻子)能够完全接受对方的缺点。那么,夫妻靠什么维持婚姻、维持对对方的依恋?靠性爱。
There is a saying that makes sense: “Sex is the poor man’s dinner.” I am like a person who does not eat dinner every day, hungry to sleep. Libido like a majestic meteorism, year after year ... ... people without such an understanding is difficult to understand my feeling. In my opinion, only sex can improve the quality of marriage. For all mortal beings, life is trivial and trivial. The average family has no ups and downs in business and money. Therefore, the changes in the quality of marriage depend on the nature in ten. A marriage and marriage expert in Taiwan said that marriage depends on three aspects: love, kindness, and getting along. Marriage come to know that no couple can get along some contradictions at all, no husband (or wife) can fully accept each other’s shortcomings. So, what is the relationship between husband and wife to maintain marriage, to maintain attachment to each other? By sex.