让孩子做“选择题”

• 作 者: 唐厚梅
• 出 处: 少年儿童研究
• 发表日期: 2010年17期
• 关键词: 荤素搭配 给你 内衅 棋法 关健问题 孙心 牟子 数学老师 教师岗位 采莲

也许是随着社会的进步,孩子的叛逆期也提前了吧。儿子在他11岁时,开始表现出极强的“第二反抗期”特征,时时处处都是一副不合作的态度,犹如一只小刺猬。比如吃饭,以前他很听话地荤素搭配,现在却不一样了,你刚夹了点青菜放他碗里,他立马瞪眼:“我不爱吃这个!”以前一放学就回家做作业、练绘画,现在却总要先在外面疯一通,你催他,他就生气:“我又不是完不成任务,晚点睡怎么啦,只要我明天不迟到不就行了!”真是半大小子,气死老子。

Perhaps with the progress of society, the child’s rebellious period is also ahead of it. When he was 11 years old, his son began to show a very strong “second period of resistance,” characterized by an uncooperative attitude everywhere, like a hedgehog. For example, eating, before he was obedient with meat and vegetables, but now is not the same, you just put some vegetables in his bowl, he stared: “I do not like to eat this! ” Homework, practicing painting, but now always have to go crazy outside, you urge him, he was angry: “I’m not finished task, sleep late, no matter what, as long as I do not be late tomorrow, no!” The size of the child, mad at you.