13年谎言能换来孩子的成功吗

• 作 者: 陈金峰
• 出 处: 晚报文萃
• 发表日期: 2014年03期
• 关键词: 学习成绩 事业有成 独自一人 同我 自强自立 心理阴影 教育会 教育方式 教育成果 罗志

家住沈阳的申女士和丈夫都有着一份不错的工作,家境非常殷实。13年前,她怕刚上小学四年级的女儿程程被宠坏了,就骗孩子说:“你不是我亲生的,你妈早死了!”“我只供你读书,供你上大学,以后别想指望我!”从此之后,程程仿佛变了一个人,刻苦学习,吃苦耐劳,学习成绩也突飞猛进。原来也只是中上等的成绩,竟然一跃冲进班级前五名,身上的骄娇之气也消失殆尽,既懂事又听话。中考前,程程填报志愿,填写了第二十中学。申女士问她原因,她说:“二十中可以住校一年,我想独立生活。”高考那年,正好赶上“非

Ms. Shen who lives in Shenyang and her husband have a good job, family is very solid. 13 years ago, she was afraid of just entering the fourth grade of her daughter was spoiled, cheated the child, said: ”You are not my biological, your mother died early!“ ”I only for you to study for you After college, do not expect me later! “From then on, Cheng Cheng seems to have changed a person, study hard, hard-working, academic performance by leaps and bounds. It turned out to be only the best results, even jumped into the top five classes, the body’s arrogance also vanished, both sensible and obedient. Before the exam, Cheng Cheng volunteer to fill out the twentieth middle school. She asked her why she said: ”Twenty can live in school for one year, I want to live alone."