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他(她)上一次说谎是什么时候?忘掉这个问题,就像你手里提着的这一篮子青菜,如果你想吃这顿晚饭,你得拣出那片腐烂的叶子——当然不是为了收藏。认定对方撒谎,意味着认定他的言辞背后有一个你能够抵达的真相。问题是: 第一,有没有这样一个真相?比如,你是不是还在想着过去的那个人——无论怎么回答,恐怕都是错的。我怎么跟你说?我是在想,想过,但不是你说的那个想。第二,这个真相你可以抵达吗?如果我说不能,通常是在保护你——我的爱人,因为那个真相对你有危险性,会伤害你,所以
When did he (her) last lie? Forget this question, just like the basket of vegetables in your hand, and if you want to eat this dinner, you have to pick up the decayed leaves - certainly not for Collection. Confirming each other’s lies means identifying the truth behind his rhetoric that you are able to arrive. The question is: First, is there any truth like this one? For example, are you still thinking of the person you were in the past? How do I tell you? I was thinking, thinking, but not what you said. Second, can you reach this truth? If I can not, I usually protect you, my lover, because that truth is dangerous to you and will hurt you so