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在我们生活的世界中,当然要处理好人际关系;然而,你要与社会沟通,就要与各种人士相处。此时,笔者告诫你这样一个事实:没有一个人是完美的,也没有一个人是完全不好的,这两种人都不存在这世界上。 如果我们追究一个人的各个方面,就会发现每个人都有很多缺点;相反,如果我们诚心领悟他人的生活方式,又可在这个人身上找到很多令人喜欢、令人敬佩的优点。因此,在与他人相处时,你要牢记三点:
Of course, in the world in which we live, we must handle personal relationships; however, if we want to communicate with the community, we must deal with people of all kinds. At this point, I warn you of the fact that no one is perfect and neither one is totally bad, neither of which exists in this world. If we investigate all aspects of a person, we will find that everyone has many shortcomings. On the contrary, if we sincerely understand the lifestyle of other people, we can find many pleasing and admirable advantages in that person as well. Therefore, when getting along with others, you have to bear in mind three points: