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绝大多数中学生都知道中学时代不能谈恋爱,但个别学生出于对爱情的向往与憧憬,仍是想去试一试,禁止中学生谈恋爱,仅用思想政治工作单纯地说服教育是不够的,他们常常是大道理明白,就是听不进去,一些人还会产生逆反心理,你越不让他做什么,他偏要去做。所以,我们不能简单、粗暴地制止,更不能说这是“不正经”的想法与行为。我们应该站在当事人的角度,移情地理解他的情感,他的内心世界。
Most middle school students know that middle school can not fall in love. However, individual students, out of their longing for and desire for love, still want to try and prohibit middle school students from falling in love. Simply using ideological and political work to persuade education is not enough. They often understand the truth, that is, do not listen to it, some people will produce rebellious psychology, the more you do not let him do what he is partial to do. Therefore, we can not stop it simply and rudely, nor can we say that this is a “non-serious” idea and behavior. We should stand in the perspective of the parties, empathically understand his feelings, his inner world.