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如果所有的风都吹向同一个方向,所有的树都长成千篇一律的形状,所有花朵都只散发同一种香,那么我们的生活将如数学公式般循规蹈矩,也彻底缺失了千姿百态的惊喜和不期而遇的美丽。坚持内心的选择,生命就该是自己原本的模样。刚上大学的时候,我加入了一个大学公益团队做志愿者。团队的发起人是一个满怀激情的学姐,每次开会叙述自己对这个团队未来的展望时,就如同在进行励志演讲,当时连我都在那种气氛下跟着她激动不已。第二天想起她说:“你得思考你加入这个团队想要获得什么,或是交际能力,或是开阔视野,说到底,为了一切。”可是,我加入,只是单纯地想融入一个团体。但很可惜,就像我人生的前18年一样,我依旧没能融入任何一个团队——第二学期团队裁员,我与学姐心目中负责任而有能力的团队人员形象相差甚远,只好自动退出。曾经有很长一段时间,我颇对自己不满,甚至厌恶。从小到大,我只有三两至交,却没有人际圈,没有做过班委,甚至没有真正融入任何团体中,即便上了大学之后有心改变自己,也仍旧失败。
If all the wind blows in the same direction and all the trees grow into a stereotyped shape, all the flowers will only emit the same kind of incense, then our life will behave as a mathematical formula, and completely miss the pleasant surprise and not Meet the beautiful period. Adhere to the inner choice, life should be their own original appearance. When I first went to college, I joined a volunteer team from a university charity. The sponsor of the team was a passionate sister. Each time I met to describe my own vision of the future of the team, I was as excited as I was when I was inspired by that atmosphere. The next day, she remembered: “You have to think about what you want to gain from joining the team, whether it’s communication skills, or broadening your horizons, after all, for everything.” "But I joined, just simply trying to fit in one group. Unfortunately, just like in the first 18 years of my life, I still could not get into any one team. In the second semester, the team layoffs. I had a far cry from the responsible and competent teammates in my mind, Automatic withdrawal. There was a long time, I quite dissatisfied with myself, or even disgusted. From an early age to a young age, I did not have any interpersonal relationships. I did not have a committee, did not even really integrate into any group, and even after I got into college, I still failed to change myself.