做红颜知己的三种境界

• 作 者: 海因
• 出 处: 商界(城乡致富)
• 发表日期: 2006年10期
• 关键词: 红颜知己 白露为霜 在水一方 情人 蒹葭 《诗经》 宋词 陷阱 欲望 招之不来

第一种境界是《诗经》,“蒹葭苍苍,白露为霜,所谓伊人,在水一方”,一份可遇而不可求的机缘。老婆占有男人,情人分享男人,而红颜知己则是塑造男人。她时而近在咫尺,时而在水一方,但你却能感受到她的存在;她不见得赞美你,但绝对尊重你,并对你笃信和相知。遗憾的是,大多数女人的聪

The first realm is the Book of Songs, “蒹 葭 gray, white dew for the frost, the so-called Iraqis, in the water side,” a chance encounter. Wife occupies a man, lover to share a man, and confidante is shaping a man. She is close at hand, sometimes on the water, but you can feel her presence; she does not necessarily praise you, but she has absolute respect and faith in you. Unfortunately, most women are smart