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在中国,作为父亲母亲一直感觉太累,孩子懂事前,一切都是由父母包办,上学以后更是操碎了心,大学毕业后又为孩子找工作、谈对象、论婚嫁、买房、买车,子女有了孩子后,还要带孙子,接送、上这个班、哪个班,父母亲重复着上面的一个来回……可以说父母为了孩子可谓殚精竭虑,牺牲了自己的青春年华,有的甚至放弃了自己的事业、兴趣爱好……好多人在问:“是不是孩子的成长都要由父母来规划?”现实中家长的意志主导孩子的命运,家长的喜好影响
In China, as a father and mother have been feeling too tired, children know everything before, everything is done by their parents, after school even more broken heart, after graduating from college and looking for work for their children, talk about the object, on marriage, buy a house, buy a car , Children with children, but also with grandson, shuttle, on the class, what class, parents repeat the above one back and forth ... ... can be said that parents are desperate for their children, sacrificed their youth, and some even give up His own career, hobbies ... ... many people are asking: “is not the child’s growth must be planned by their parents?” In reality, the will of the parents to dominate the child’s destiny, the preferences of parents affect